Saturday, 18 January 2014

The sexual play for children


The sexual play and discovering is considered one of the aspects of the naturaly sexual growth. The sense of sexual scouting my lead children to see naked bodies of the others, touch them and play some games that help to him to do that like for example the game of .( the doctor) or the father and the mother.

The sexual play starts with the scouting the it becomes an amusing game which can be played by the child whenever he likes. The parents and the doctors should know that in this stage there is no sexual appetence of the child before the age of puberty but it is only an enjoyment.
My clinic recieved many cases of problems of children who practices the sexual games upon themselves or the others like there examples




http://www.child-abuse-stories.com/2014/01/The-sexual-play-for-children.html





  • A child of 6 years old practices lovemaking with his sister of 5 years old while the absence of their parents. The cause of this behavior is the sexual provocation the the child had experienced by his uncle before so he applyed what he learnt on his sister


  • A child of 4 years old catches his sexual organ and starts playing with it just like he is driving a car while immitating its sound at home. Sometimes he heats his sexualy organ and tells his parent that he want to remove it or cut it. A child of 5 years barads his sexual organ in front of the other students in class. A little girl of 3 years puts her mother's leg between her legs and starts rubing everyday.


  • A child of 4 years is always put by the maide on her legs while she is siting down then she starts shacking her legs, she does not know that she rubs and moves the child's sexual organ which make him very amused. So the child started to ask her to do that very often after that, he began to play with his sexual organ alone

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Monday, 30 December 2013

child abuse in usa

In the United States more than 5 children die from child abuse or neglect, 80% of them are under 4 years old. The problem is that this number is increasing day after day. If we take the statistics of 15 years ago it was three children a day, the number is three times more because the statistics cannot account all the cases.

http://www.child-abuse-stories.com/2013/12/child-abuse-in-usa.html


There are many organizations that make a lot of effort to fight children abuse. Since 1959 these organizations try very hard to make people aware of this destructive problem. The aim is to bring safety and welfare to the children, furthermore the national association PROTECT provided support to protect abused and neglected children.I was really shocked when I read some stories about child abuse and this is the reason which pushed me to write this article. Children need love and encouragement, but the reality shows us that there are people in 2013 still mistreat their children which is really a dreadful fact. I made some researches about this issue and I came up with some unexpected statistics, approximately 60% of children die because of the mistreatment and brutality of their parents, 59% of abused children are more likely to be arrested as juvenile and 28% as adults and about 30% are more likely to be arrested by committing a violent crimes and about 80% of 21 years olds have psychological problems because of the violence they faced from their parents when they were children the majority of the people arrested because of the grog are abused or neglected children. I put the hat of the researcher to show the reader the danger of the phenomenon because this children are the men of the future so they may do the same with the other generations which means the problem will spread more if we don’t look for a solution.


Monday, 23 December 2013

Mental Child Abuse



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Children should be treated gently. They should not be frighten or scared, this is a violence that children may face, and the outcomes of it may not appear at the beginning but later on through their behaviors it is not like the physical abuse which cannot be hidden.     
Fright is one aspect of child abuse. It causes the child many psychological problems that the child becomes scar of everything and do not have the ability to express his feelings to another person, Sometimes the child feels ashamed to tell some things related to sex for example if he/she is not covering up for fear and this is a very bad mistake that the adults may make toward children therefore if the child does not feel safe his/her thoughts can never be discovered.
some evil men target young girls from the same family. They expose them and fondle them sexually after they isolate them; the child cannot comprehend these actions so it causes her an emotional shock worse than that she is obliged to conceal this crime because the adult warns her if she tell anybody she will be panelized that raises her fear from the criminal .  
Some people bring on mental abuse in young children without being aware of what they are doing this is by telling them some stories about death and hell things that their little brain cannot comprehend this is very dangerous because it maycause the children nightmares, confusion and withdrawal. Religious people should be aware that if they tell this scaring stories to a child they are guilty even they are religious fearing people because this may have consequences that may appear later on.

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child abuse Chinese

In the town of Shichang in china’s southwestern guiezhou on may 8 a young girle of 11 years old was found walking on the road of the town.


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The girl was talking to herself according to a local news report then she shouted abuse at a passers-by.
A man called Mr Fu, came closer to the child the he figured out that her body received different kinds of violence she had a lot of scars a big part of her hair was missing and it appeared just like the fire touched her body many times because there was scalded patches.
The girl’s name is Xiao according to other villagers the little girl is a victim of abuse of her father whose name is Yang.
The police arrested Yang after Mr Fu had called them; Xiao Li exposed all terrible experiences she had with her father
The little girl was beaten with a fishing cord which stitched up her mouth, her head had been put in a boiling water, her skin used to be pierced with a needles, her father used to force her to sit on her knees in a floor covered with broken glass moreover she used to be beaten with belts and sticks.
Some photographs of the victim in hospital this week showed that there are new wounds in her knees because of the broken glasses and older ones in other places in her body.
The doctor said that her head’s hair may not grow up again because of the boiled water her head had been put in
She seems younger even she is 11 years which means that she has not been feed well during her short life.
The doctors wrote a report describing her health’s situation in addition to the police investigations with her father who admitted his crimes all this explain the abuses she had received
The girl grandmother in an interview said that Xiao Li’s parents wanted to find a job somewhere else in china so they left home a short time after she was born
The girl lived five years with her grandparents who took care of her then her father came and took her but he abused her.
The grandmother said in the interview with the police that she knew that the girl was abused but she was unable to save her because she was afraid of her son to abuse her as well
She said "He sometimes even beat me along with her, using tobacco stems hitting my back, hitting my head with pot lids’’
She said that even the girl would try to escape from her father’s house looking for a safe place like her mother’s house, her father would find her and violent her. The grandmother didn’t know the reasons behind this aggressive behavior of her son.
It was clear that the police knew about one case of child abuse in October last year by Yang
According to villagers, the girl’s head was put into boiling water.
When Yang was asked by the police about the reason he claimed the he just Wanted to clean his daughter’s hair from lice that is why he dipped her head into boiling water the police ordered him to take Xiao Li to hospital but he didn’t apply that
Sky news wanted to know what was the role of Xiao Li’s mother in her education.
The girl now is in the hospital regaining her health the local authorities are ready to cover all the costs of the medical care and organize a developed program of psychological treatment.
The local government official decided to look for someone who can take care of Xiao Li for the rest of her childhood because her grandparents are elder to do so
Mr Chen promised that they would make an investigation on all the children on the town to make sure that these things will not happen again.
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Thursday, 12 December 2013

Child Abuse Cases in Malaysia

We can define child abuse as any harm or violence to a child by another person like his/her parents or any other person like relatives or guardians. There are four major categories of children abuse which are physical, neglect, sexual and emotional abuse.

Child Abuse Cases in Malaysia



In Malaysia the problem is really serious, each year there are at least 1,000 children reported as victims according to social welfare in Malaysia. With unbelievable statistics of child abuse, there is no consideration to children’s rights, so these innocents cannot get a good and comforted life. 
These social issues are very dangerous because they may affect the country’s image. Worse than that, this problem has a negative impact on the child’s health psychologically and physically which may appear later. Children as human have the right to be taken away from violence and exploitation.  Recently it has been a campaign against child abuse organized by the government to save children from any kind of violence and also to make the parents aware of the bad impacts of these actions toward their kids. Therefore we should care about children because they are the future’s hope.  



Wednesday, 11 December 2013

Hearing About Child Abuse Stories


Children are the most innocent category in society. They do not know life correctly and they still unable to understand the world. All that they do is eating, sleeping, playing and learning from the adults and try to imitate what others do. That is why we should take care about them and do our best to provide them the conditions of a good life like security and food. However, sometimes we get shocked when we hear about some terrible stories of child abuse which make us wonder how these horrible actions may happen in a modern society.  
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 Child abuse may have different types. The common one is bulling, many parents or relatives use this way to make children respect them, but in reality these actions have psychological damages which may affect the child’s growth. This psychological problem may not appear now but in the future so it will impact negatively on his/her personality. 

The most shocking stories about child abuse are these which tell that there are parents who beat their children for many reasons most of them are stupid. Some countries came up with laws which forbid all kinds of violence against children, like using hands, belts or sticks to beat the child. The problem is how can these governments guarantee that the parent would respect that law because they can never know what happens in each house moreover, the neighbors do not care when they hear parents beating their children.
The most nauseating stories of child abuse are those which argue that children in many cases are victims of sexual molestations. How can we imagine that these innocent angels can be treated with this brutality? the Dreadful thing is that the most cases lead to murder.

People should stop ignoring and averting their eyes from the issue of child abuse, it is time to work together to put an end to this phenomenon to save these innocent children because when we look after our children it means that we are making sure of having a better future.




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